What are New Year’s resolutions?
- Resolutions are goals. They are actions you promise to do to be better.
- They are listed down. You promise to start doing them at the start of a new year.
- They can be about improving your health, career, education or spiritual life.
- It can be a promise to stop bad habits or start good ones.
It is a New Year tradition. You make a list hoping for a better year ahead.
Do people keep their resolutions?
- Studies say that only 8% of people who make resolutions succeed in keeping them.
- 75% of resolutions are continued until the first week of January.
- Only 46% make it beyond six months.
Why should you make New Year’s resolutions?
- Trying makes you a better person.
You may find out that you can succeed. You may be more disciplined and driven than you thought.Your list of resolutions will help you focus. It will guide you to get what you want in life.
- The value of making resolutions is in the experience, not the end result.
- When you make a resolution, you:
- Think about your life
- Want to make improvements
- Write plans with good intentions
- These are all good actions that can make you better.
- You see your needs, goals, and potentials.
Tips for making resolutions that work
- Plan ahead.
Make positive goals
- Make the list before Dec. 31st.
- Think of what you want to accomplish next year.
- Example: Improve your health in 2020 if you got sick in 2019.
- Make your list. Set your mind to achieve your plans.
- It is a commitment. Don’t take it lightly.
- Habits are hard to break.
- Don’t start resolutions with “I will not”, “I will never”, or “I will stop”. They will be impossible to do.
- Set positive goals.
- Example: Not “I will never eat junk food again.” It should be: “I will eat two servings of vegetables per day” or “I will have a piece of fruit for a midday snack every day”.
- Stopping all wars or getting rid of poverty are great goals.
- But they will not happen soon.
- Make goals that can be accomplished.
- You can have big goals but start small.
- Example: Your goal is to stop wars. Start with small conflicts in your life. You can:
- Be kind to all people of various cultures.
- Learn more about diversity.
- Make peace with a friend or family member you had an argument with.
- Example: Ending poverty. Start by
- helping other newcomers by giving them good information.
- volunteering at charities
- helping in a soup kitchen
- A little effort goes a long way.
Make short term goals
- Make your resolution detailed.
- Example: Bad -“I will be healthy in 2019”. Good:
- “I will attend Zumba three times a week”
- “I will eat more fruits every day”
- “I will go to yoga classes twice a week”
- Your goals do not have to take one year to accomplish.
- It takes between 21 and 66 days for a new activity to become a habit.
- Make goals that last for one to six months.
- It can make it easier for you to keep them.
- Tell your goals to someone.
- People close to you will support you.
- They will encourage you when you feel like giving up.
- Ask a trainer, a mentor/teacher, your husband, wife, or best friend to help you stick to your resolutions.
- Ask them to join you.
- Example: Ask your partner to jog with you.
- You will have a better chance of jogging thrice a week if your husband or wife jogs with you.
- Learning a new craft or improving your language skills are more fun when you do it with your friends.
Record your progress
- Enjoy small achievements.
- Rewards can help you stick to your goals.
- Example: Buy a dress when you lose five pounds. Get a new tie, bag or shoes after you have not smoked cigarettes for a month.
- Seeing improvement can encourage you.
- Write down your progress weekly or monthly.
- Forgive yourself when you miss your goal. But never give up!
- You can do it!
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