Read Original Version (CLB5+) You are reading the Simple Version (CLB3-4) Did you know that in 2021, people lost a lot of money because of romance scams? This was the second highest amount of money lost to fraud. Yes, this type of scam is becoming more common. The people who do it are very smart. They use sophisticated methods to make it look like they are real. They can keep up the scam for a long period of time. Law enforcement experts have discovered that the most dangerous type of this scam is done by organized crime. People might think that only people who are not smart can be tricked by this scam. But, anyone can be tricked if the conditions are right. It doesn’t matter how smart you are. The people who are most likely to be victims of this crime are women. They usually have a good education and are between the ages of 40 and 60. Unfortunately, there are some scams that even young people can fall for. One of these is called the “Sugar Daddy” scam. A romance scam is when someone uses a fake identity to trick someone else into a romantic relationship. They may use this relationship to get money or other things from the other person. A romance scam is when someone lies to another person. They pretend to have romantic feelings for them. This is done to gain the other person’s trust and to get money from them. This type of scam can happen in person or online. Recently, online romance scams have become more popular. This is because of social media and online dating apps. Scammers can hide their identity with fake profiles and online messaging. They also use tools like cash apps, crypto currency, and gift cards. These are hard to trace. Be aware of these signs: The scammer might say they are in love with you after only a few days of talking. They will say that you two have a strong connection and that you are their soul mate. This is a sure sign that you are being scammed. It might start with a small amount. The scammer will make it hard to refuse. They might say that they (or a loved one) had an accident, got sick, or something else that needs money urgently. They might also ask for money to come and see you in person. They will guilt you into sending money by saying that they are doing it for you. This is a tactic used by scammers. They will send you a lot of text messages or calls every day. They might also send you flowers or gifts. This is done to make you trust them, so it is easier for them to trick you. This is when the scammer tries to get your sympathy. They will tell you a sad story. It could be about their family, getting robbed, or losing their job. The goal is to make it easier to convince you to send money. The scammer will agree with everything you say. They might also share stories that are similar to yours. For example, they might say “I know what it’s like to be without a parent at a young age. I understand how it feels to want love.” This is a way of making you trust them. Don’t give away too much on social media. Scammers can use this information to deceive you. They often target people who are feeling sad or upset. If something doesn’t feel right, or if you’ve seen any warning signs, stop. Ask a friend for their opinion. Do some research on the person. Use Google or a reverse image search to check their profile picture. Read about the Military romance scam to learn how scammers use photos of real military personnel. If someone asks you for money, it’s okay to say no. This can help you figure out if they are being honest or not. To stay safe, it’s important to know about the latest scams. You can read about them from the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre. You can also download the Little Black Book of Scams from Competition Bureau Canada. Knowing about scams can help you avoid becoming a victim. Please login to tell us what you think.Skip to:
What is a romance scam?
How can you tell if you’re in one?
The relationship moves quickly
Asking for money
Love bombing
Sob stories
Mirroring
How to keep yourself safe from romance scams
Be careful with your information
Listen to your gut
Check them out
Say no to money requests
Stay informed
Sources: Just the facts: Romance scams, Paul Northcott, RCMP; and Romance scams, Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre. Accessed November 29, 2022.We'd love to hear from you!